Anchorage High in the '60's wasn't half bad, and the twenty years
since have made it look even better. I remember those years as one long
romp through parties and basketball games and good times. The bad stuff
has diminished, the hurts healed.
Therefore, when Kathi Sandison Moon called and said that a
West High Reunion Committee was in full gear, nothing could have kept me
away. That night I dreamed about our 1963 Senior Ball. I had never before
dreamed about the Senior Ball. In the dream, my first and last strapless
gown threatened to fall off (just like it had in '63). Semi-familiar faces
danced by and nobody knew who I was. Awakening to yelling children and
house cleaning was actually reassuring. The mirror wasn't. I had
accumulated twenty years of wrinkles and sags and bags. Sigh. Was It
possible to return to all that past fun ... even for one short weekend? I
shrugged and decided It definitely was worth a try.
The committee meeting itself was a revelation. Kathi had
become the consummate homemaker, mother and wife. Glenda Irving Dodson was (in Foster Dyer's words), "gorgeous." Charles Norton had turned into
"Chuck," an amiable, laid back teacher. Kay Edwards Packard was
curly-headed, slender and lovely; Jay Cross, muscular and extroverted,
the man who knew everybody and where to get anything.
At that meeting we mostly talked about people. I sat with
an Anchor on my lap, trying to put names with faces. I had not seen most
classmates since graduation and felt like I was cramming for a final.
Subsequent meetings were attended by Marianne Hartlieb
McElligott (still the "most beautiful" and too nice to hate for it); Ted
Trueblood (smoking a pipe); Rus Skousen, a free-lance ski instructor;
Jincy Swarzbaker, a North Slope security guard; Linda Miner Spannagel
(still happily married to Larry); and Sharon Lambert Ulmer, tanned and
attractive. Dan Rodey kept promising to come to meetings, but always was
too busy dating to show up.
Eventually, the committee did get beyond chatting about old
times and began putting together a weekend. We even met with the East
High Reunion Committee. They tried to intimidate us with their complex
budget and computerized lists, but we were enjoying ourselves too much
to care.
The night before the reunion's start, the committee
gathered at Kathi's for a marathon plane-meeting session. Anita Boss
Jorgenson, Diane Cook Pratt, and Carol Gustafson Goldsmith had already
arrived and drove to the airport with us. We talked at double speed to
make up for lost years.
At International Airport, we immediately spotted Carol
Gilbert Wilmoth who had just flown in from Texas. Cherie Bowlin Morrison
(in trench coat and heels) and Linda (Kaup) and Lee Peterson, were already
waiting. We formed a large, rowdy welcoming committee. When Lea Rene
Roloff Martin and Barbara Umber Carrier disembarked, they were dazzled
by the size of the crowd. On the way to the next
concourse, Scott Williams appeared, looking "tall and beautiful,"
according to one of the ladies. Ron Cupples, returning from a business
trip, got caught up in the madness, too. After a long wait, Winton Wilcox
arrived. His hair was gone, but not his bravado. He made a worthwhile
entrance. His exact words aren't printable, but it was obvious that he was
on his way to a class reunion.
It was difficult to go home that night. All the women
agreed that if it weren't for husbands, children, and homes, a slumber
party would have been in order.
Contrary to weather reports, the morning of the reunion
breakfast was clear and sunny. Mostly because we were too excited to wait
any longer, committee members gathered at Kathi's house early. Glenda
unrolled a gigantic black and orange "Class of '63" sign, and people began
to converge.
I had prepared name tags with Xeroxed Anchor pictures and
opted to stay by the door and "tag" people as they entered. Despite the
snide remark, "Didn't you ever get over being secretary?" I loved my job.
People had changed. Lewis Leonard had lots of hair; Al
Haylor was running low. Krls Gratrlx was the epitome of respectability;
Tom Shook looked a little wild. Foster Dyer wasn't married; Don Holland
almost was. Charles Betts was very tall and Patsy Ryan had shrunk. Despite
the changes, somehow the '63 person was still there underneath it all, and
that was the fun part.
After the breakfast, which nobody ate, and champagne, which
few people drank, reunion tee shirts were handed out and the entire crew
trekked over to West. The new West principal tried to give an informal
guided tour over the boisterous comments and continuous chatter. It was
noted that the locker rooms smelled the same and the green marble floors
looked better than ever. West felt strange, though, without its second
floor that was razed in the '64 quake. People were a bit taken back
by twenty years of change.
Outside the photographer posed us on the school steps. He
was patient with the catcalls and smart remarks. After a final try--"Say
Reaganomicsl" he snapped a last photo and we dispersed.
The evening event at the Tower Club was scheduled for
8pm. Pam (Porter) and Carl Brady had arranged for use of the ritzy 14th
floor restaurant. The waiters were amused by our vintage posters of West
sports and the '63 Senior Ball. We heard them snickering about the funny
clothes and hairdos. Fortunately, they couldn't figure out who had been
who.
My husband and several other non-West spouses immediately
headed for the bar. Others gritted their teeth and made the best of the
evening. For those of us "reunioning" just talking to people was enough.
Even listening to the comments was a treat:
"Anita Boss You finally got your braces off!"
''I'm looking for every girl that ever liked me ... even
a little."
"I didn't know Pam Porter even dated Carl Brady."
"How can Patsy Hoblit be four months pregnant and
skinnier than I ?"
"Ron Waters won't let anyone date his daughters who is a
musician, drives a van or has a last name he can't pronounce."
Glenda Dodson had to pound on the microphone to quiet the
crowd for a brief speech about the way things were. Then, she introduced
the reunion committee and all classmates who had come from out-of-state
were given a round of applause. Glenda listed the '63 Senior
superlatIves, noting that both of the "Most Talkative" (Carol Gustafson
and Winton Wl1cox) were present, and none of the "Quietest" (Jerry and
Jim Baker and Sandy Fujimoto) had shown up.
Then, Reunion Awards were given. I was so excited and
involved that some of the winning names are probably garbled here, but
do my best. Carol Gilbert Wilmoth had
traveled the farthest to attend the reunion. Linda and Lee Peterson and
Pam and Carol Brady were the class couples who were still married. Sandy
Kelly Compton had been married the longest (since May of 1963), but
Linda Miner Spannagel was a close second. Charles Betts was both the
most prolific and the person with the most grandchildren.
All the candidates for "Most Disgustingly Unchanged" were
women--Cheri Bowlin Morrison, Karen Krogseng Packer, Shirley Mathews
Orr, Marianne Hartlieb McElligo, Patsy Hoblit Reese and
Glenda Irving Dodson. Patsy Ryan the winner, promptly put on
her "Disgustlng" button and wore it for the rest of the evening. All men
were nominated for the "Most Changed"--Don Holland, Kris Gratrlx, Jerry
Pruitt, Charles Betts, Kip Mosher and Foster Dyer. Kip won that one. It
seems as if Winton Wilcox won "Still Crazy After All These Years," but no
one remembers for sure.
The evening ended with cheek-to-cheek dancing, mostly, but
not exclusively, between husbands and wives. When I took down the posters,
the waiters were stlll trylng to find any similarity between the people in
the pictures and the "old tlmers" who attended the party.
It rained torrents that night. Our family picnic with East
should have been ralned out, but it wasn't. The committee attrlbuted the
unexpected sunshlne to the religious connections of a few classmates.
Some Eastsiders were already at the Eklutna grounds when we
arrlved for the picnic. We dazzled them w1th our black and orange tee
shirts. (They had neglected to rush to Cartee and Sons the week before and
have 100 hurriedly made like we dld.)
Scott Williams brought hls brother's llama with cart and
gave the chlidren rides. The adults drank beer and pop and talked. A few
new people showed up--Jeri Cotton, Margie Murto and Betsy Fenno's mother
(who knew more plcnickers than any of us.) Krls Gratrlx's beautiful babies
were passed around and nobody could keep Kerry Kimura's four boys
straight. It was a great game trying to figure out what parents belonged
to which children.
The picnic culminated with a great East-West volleyball
game. East won, but only because (as Kathi sald), "They were bigger,
taller
there
were more of
them, and they cheated." Only the last wasn't true. It was Gary
Randall's devastating serve that did us In. Even Foster Dyer, who made a
fantastic save that ended in a mud puddle, dldn't care about the score.
It was great fun and worth the sore muscles the next day.
It was slowly and wlth reluctance that people began
rounding up their beer bottles and children. Left-overs were boxed up
and signs taken down; the volleyball net, packed away. The goodbyes
weren't very final, though. Everyone had plans for a rerun in 1988.